Ageism is a widespread issue in society, creating barriers between generations. It forms the stereotype that specific experiences are ‘out of bounds’ because people have reached a certain age. The effects of ageism can be damaging, leading to feelings of loneliness and isolation among older adults, as well as playing a role in the development of physical and emotional challenges.
Conversations can help challenge these negative stereotypes while fostering connection across age groups, reminding us that age is just a number when you embrace life to its fullest. Facilitating intergenerational chats opens up meaningful opportunities for people of all ages to come together and learn from one another. It is often forgotten that older adults hold a wealth of wisdom, knowledge, and experience gained from living full lives, and their invaluable insights remind us of their contributions to society. Whether it is understanding the use of correct terminology or providing a space where people of all ages feel accepted, by encouraging dialogues between generations, we allow each other to reflect on the past and learn things for the future.
The Ageing Well Network consists of representatives from voluntary organisations, charities, and community groups, and plays a crucial role in promoting conversations with older adults. The network holds regular meetings to bring together older adults from across Bath and North East Somerset to shape the future of ageing well in our area. The network has also revived the Older People’s Voices Forum, which, guided by the voices of older adults in our community, aims to provide a place where older adults can share their opinions and suggestions to help create an age friendly community in BaNES.
Open conversations can also provide opportunities for older adults to become more comfortable with the modern world. The increasing pace of life can leave people of all ages feeling lost and disconnected in a society dominated by new advances and changing technology. By encouraging intergenerational interactions, we can bridge this gap and benefit all involved.
Supporting older adults with the tools and resources they need in the modern world, allows us to provide a range of skills that support and empower them to embrace their age, rather than feel limited by it. As part of St John’s support, our Good Living team provide a Tech Advisor group, where residents can go for help with their phones, iPads and computers, as well as chat with members of staff who have more experience in using digital devices. Whether it’s demonstrating how to use new devices, accessing online resources, managing their finances, or understanding new or updated systems, these connections help older adults to embrace technology without feeling overwhelmed and ‘left behind’.
Through these conversations, we can also change the narrative around later life. Research shows that 1 in 3 people think being older is characterised by frailty, vulnerability and dependency, when in reality, older adults play a vital role in our workplaces, communities, and society, offering of experience, knowledge, and diverse perspectives across a range of topics.
It is important that we challenge the common, internalised perceptions of ageing that many people hold – ideas like being ‘past it’ or having ‘senior moments’. By sharing stories that highlight the accomplishments, resilience, and vibrant lives of older individuals, we can reinforce that age does not define capability or worth and help create a society where we view ageing not as a decline, but as another chapter filled with potential and opportunity.
